After an 11 day stay in the hospital, Mike is now home!
He is still weak and the wound on his arm is straight out of a horror film, but he is here!
It has been explained to us that this will take some time to heal, maybe 3 to 4 weeks, and he requires home health care (God bless those nurses that came out in 4 inches of snow on Christmas day!) still, he is most definitely getting better.
This has been a nightmare. My brain felt like it was going to explode, trying to think of ways to control this situation that I had no control over, trying to stay connected to my kids to relieve their fears when my own threatened to consume my sanity, the anxiety over Mike's condition that distracted me during driving in bad conditions (we had one of the worst ice storms in history here in Missouri on the 15th and it left me stranded on a side road for 4 hours), business tasks that had to be completed, and a house that still had to be kept. I mean, like it or not, we all still needed to wear clean underwear.
But the support you all showed me, in your comments, emails and phone calls, gave me strength.
It might not seem like much, a simple "We are praying for your family, Shannon", but it meant so much.
Each one I used to prop myself up with and move on to the next thing that had to be done.
Thank you doesn't seem adequate but it is all I have;
Thank you.
i am so very relieved to hear that things are all headed in the right direction... you have certainly been put through the ringer - and that ice storm sounds horrific... somehow or other, we put one foot in front of the other, and we get further than we were before... take good care of yourself as well - because you have given 1000% to maintain everyone and a body (and mind) can only handle so much...
ReplyDeleteI’m so relieved to hear your husband is better and home now. Surely he’ll recover quickly being home and surrounded by his family.
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Bless your heart....hang in there sweetie
ReplyDelete~Sharon~
I'm glad he's home and with you. Enjoy the peace that that brings.
ReplyDeleteI am away and have not been able to keep up with the daily blogs so I am thrilled to get on today and read your post. Hugs to you and Mike....he is in my prayers and thoughts.
ReplyDeleteOh Sweet Shannon you know we love you and are here for you always as you would be for us. I am truly happy that Mike is home and that you were able to have everyone together on Christmas. You do not need to do this alone that is what friends are for so lean on us all you need!
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Thinking of you and Mike and the kids. Hugs!
ReplyDeleteSo glad Mike is home now and healing! Prayers are continuing to be sent your way
ReplyDeleteBless your heart, Shannon! I'm so glad to see some news and that it's good news! You really came through a very tough time, and it poured on you, being stranded in your car AND your husband in the hospital, AND kids needed reassurance and food, etc etc. Any advice seems inadequate, but soldier on, don't look back. You can digest it all later. Wish I were there to help you, Bravo for you, you brought out the inner strength. I'm very proud of you!
ReplyDeleteI am so sad to read this and will also pray for him. My husband, very healthy until a month ago, has pancreatic cancer so I am very sad to read about your situation, too. We have had so much love and generosity handed out to us and my heart is filled with gratefulness and sadness.
ReplyDeleteI'll bet you are so glad for Home Health Care. I am busy looking into that right now,
Sending hugs,
Suz
You have been brave, loving and strong. Blessing to you and your family!
ReplyDeleteoh my goodness, I missed your previous post. My heart aches and aches for you. Watching a loved one go through this, while worrying about your children, while facing the unknown, it brings tears to my eyes. from far away, i send so much love and concern. i wish i could do more. why horrific things have to happen in seemingly every life is a mystery. however i've also seen people come back from indescribable experiences to live a stable and fulfilling life (me).
ReplyDeletehugs and kisses and well wishes impossible to put into words.
marina/fanciful
Glad to hear he is home. Wishing a speedy recovery of his arm and may things get better for all of you in the new year. Sending prayers.
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Oh dear, I'm so sorry you were stranded on the roadside for hours!! What an ordeal you and your family have been through. I'm so glad Mike is home, and I'm sure with your care he will mend quickly.
ReplyDeleteThere's much to be thankful for. Have a Happy New Year!!!!!!!
I'll say it again... we are each angels with only one wing... we fly when we hold each up.
ReplyDeleteBlessings to you and your family, Shan! I am wishing you a speedy recover and a healthy new year!
Enjoy the day!
Erin
I am so glad he is home! We are here for you and you are in our thoughts!
ReplyDeleteIm soooo so thankful he is ok and doing well I thank the Lord! Thats so wonderful Shannon...my heart sends many huggs across the miles to you and your family...
ReplyDeleteLove~Janet xox
Lots of love to you -- you know I'm here for you.
ReplyDeleteShannon my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
ReplyDeleteThe best to you all this upcoming new year.
Reading your blog sometimes reaffirms my belief in the goodness of humanity. no, really. Thank you for that.
ReplyDeleteDear Shannon, I wish Mike a speedy recovery and you some relaxing time. God Bless your family! I hope you can find some time to just be that cute funny family y'all are! If we had came to St.Louis for the holidays I would knock on your door and try to help in some way. Prayers for you...Laura
ReplyDeleteThank you for you being You Shannon, and reminding us to be so sensitive to others! Were all in *This* together and how blessed we are when we are so cared about. We will keep you uplifted in prayers to "He who never slumbers nor does He sleep"! Many many huggs across the miles to you and your little family! xox
ReplyDeleteYou hang in there Shannon. Its time for a deep breath, and things to turn around now. And getting stranded on top of everything, you didn't deserve that. Sending LOTS of love and best wishes for a fabulous New Year. Hugs, lots of them, Riki
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ReplyDeleteWishing him the fastest for recoveries! Thank you for taking the time to send an email. Shock phase when someone you love gets ill is a trial, but time helps. Illness in the family is so hard. Regards, Linnea
ReplyDeleteWishing him the fastest for recoveries! Thank you for taking the time to send an email. Shock phase when someone you love gets ill is a trial, but time helps. Illness in the family is so hard. Regards, Linnea
ReplyDeleteSo very happy to hear he is doing much better, Wishing you and your family the very best in this upcoming new year.
ReplyDeleteShannon, I am so sorry to hear about what you've gone through over the holidays, but especially for your husband. I hope he is recuperating and resting and that the worst is behind you.
ReplyDeleteBeing stranded for 4 hours along the road sounds like a true nightmare. Thinking of you!
Shannon,
ReplyDeleteI am just beginning to create jewelry and I have not been able to find materials to create the style of jewelry I want to make. I have been frustrated and discouraged, and then I found you! Just today. And I am so excited--your work is amazingly beautiful and I will place an order very soon. It exactly fits what I had in mind to make. I am sorry to hear about your husband, but glad things are better. I took the time to write because my wonderful husband had cancer in both kidneys last year and I understand your heartache and weariness---he is doing so great and I pray your husband will recover fully from this awful ordeal. I will say a prayer for you and your family today. Thank you for your amazing work--you have a beautiful gift!
I hope things are going well for you and Mike.......you haven't posted in a while, you are both still in my thoughts and prayers
ReplyDeleteHope things are going well now! Have a good weekend!
ReplyDeleteThis is my first visit to your blog. I recently purchased from your etsy store (love your store). Just wanted to give you and Mike some good wishes and hope he recovers all right. An infection like that is super scary (and deadly). I had MRSA a year ago--horrible experience. Hope the pain is subsiding. God bless.
ReplyDeleteWell this was a sobering post and my heart goes out to you and your family. My hope is that Mike's spiriit and sense of humor give him the capacity to kick that damn cancer in the ass. Sorry for the swearing...just sorry to hear you and yours going through so much. My thoughts are with you and I'm hoping for best outcomes.
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